How to Build Confidence as a New RV Owner (7 Tips)

How to Build Confidence as a New RV Owner

Between driving, setting up, and tearing down, being a new RV owner can be daunting. But there are several things you can do to make it easier on yourself…

Getting behind the wheel for the first time and setting out on your first trip can be nerve-wracking. And the truth is, that feeling usually remains for the first few trips. 

But have no fear, because I have helpful tips for you to build your confidence in no time. I was in your shoes before, but now it’s like second nature.

So, take a deep breath, push the “what if’s” out of your mind, and focus on the following…

7 Ways to Build Confidence as a New RV Owner

I think the only people who are confident with RVing right off the bat are those who have lots of driving, towing, and mechanical experience. 

But even then, driving an RV or towing a trailer is a unique situation. And, more so, living in one takes getting used to (whether for a weekend or long-term). 

There is a lot to learn and adjust to, but you don’t have to know it all at once. You’ll learn a lot from experience and from fellow RVers who help along the way. And as a fellow RVer, I’m here to help with these tips…

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New RV owner – walk through.

1. Record Your Walk-Through

I wish I had done this when we picked up our first RV. As the seller walked me through everything, it all made sense and seemed pretty easy… until I went to do it later by myself.

There was a lot of “Was it this or that?” and “Where is that again?” I got really frustrated with myself but Jennifer reminded me that it’s a lot to try to take in at once. 

So, I highly recommend you record your walk-through. Just use the camera on your phone so you can refer back to it whenever. 

If you’ve already completed your walk-through, don’t worry… you can always refer to good-ol’ YouTube. Just type in your make and model and what you need help with and there’s almost always a perfect explainer video.

2. Plan an Easy First Trip

I think most newbie RVers are most nervous about that first drive or road trip. Pulling it out of the driveway, hitting the road, and then hitting something you’re not supposed to!

Start off with an easy trip. Just something to get your feet wet, so to speak. 

Plan to drive outside of peak traffic hours. This will take a lot of pressure off of you, and allow you to comfortably take your time getting the feel of things. 

Also, choose a nearby campground. So, if something does go wrong, you’re not far from familiar resources. Or just take everything for a test right there in your driveway! Spend the night in your new rig to get used to everything.


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3. “It’ll Go Where You Tell It To”

I’ll also share a piece of advice that seems simple but is surprisingly reassuring: “The RV will go where you tell it to.” 

If you turn the wheel, the RV will turn. If you push the brake, it will stop. If you push the gas pedal, it will go. 

Basically, it’s a simple way to remind yourself that you are in control. An RV is a machine that is designed for you to easily control. Trust that it will respond as it's supposed to.

Little mantras like “I can do this” and “I’m in control” can help calm your nerves.

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Give yourself some grace.

4. Take the Pressure Off

You also need to cut yourself some slack. Know that you are going to make some mistakes because we all do! 

If you start to take a turn too sharp, no big deal. Just correct it. 

If it takes you 10 times to back up into a spot, no big deal. Next time it’ll take you less. 

Take the pressure off yourself and you’ll find that everything is easier… or at least not nearly as frustrating. It’s when you try to force yourself to perform a certain way that things really start to go wrong. 

So, take a deep breath, laugh it off, and try again. Maybe try all the turns and maneuvers in an empty parking lot. That's how many young people learned to drive and get confidence in making all the right moves. This is totally ok to do at your age now, too.

5. Choose an Easy Campsite

When booking your first campsite, don’t hesitate to tell the person you’re a new RV owner. Ask for a pull-through site, if possible, or for a site that they recommend for newbie RVers. 

Don’t be embarrassed to ask because it’ll actually save you from embarrassment from trying to park and set up in a difficult spot. (Although again, I suggest you laugh off any “embarrassment”… embarrassment leads to frustration which leads to a ruined trip.)

I also recommend you choose a private campground rather than a state park. Why? Because state parks often don’t have full hook-ups or a full staff to help if need be. 

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Get to know your RV neighbors.

6. Ask Your Campground Neighbor

One of the biggest reassurances I can give you is that as long as there are other RVers nearby, you’ll be fine. You’ll find that RVers are the epitome of “neighborly” even if those neighbors change every day.

If you don’t have a tool you need, ask a neighbor. If you don’t know how to do something, ask a neighbor. If you’ve made a fool of yourself, laugh it off with a neighbor. I’m sure they’ll have similar stories to share with you.

But, speaking of which, here’s a list of Tools Every RVer Needs to Carry.

7. Don’t Be Afraid to Turn Down Help

Fellow RVers are so neighborly that sometimes they can be a little too helpful. If you’re trying to do something on your own and someone comes to offer help, it’s okay to say no.

You can just politely say, “I really appreciate your help but I learn best by doing. So I’m going to give it a try myself, but if I need help I’ll now know who to come to.”

9.9 times out of 10 they’ll respect you for it and step aside. 

How Did You Build Confidence as a New RV Owner?

Were you confident or nervous when you became a new RV owner? Did you have any funny mishaps or useful “teaching moments”? Please share your experience and advice in the comments below.

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6 Comments

  1. David Humlicek says:

    It’s good to have checklists. Google RV Camping Checklists. You will find many. They will include exterior, interior, kitchen, maintenance, games, etc. Print the ones you like or think apply most to you. use suggestions from sites like this one to improve and modify your checklists along with your personal experiences. Have a folder for your owners manual. if it doesn’t have the owners manuals for items like the water heater, fridge, water pump, heater, etc.. then use the model and serial number to find the manuals online. Then print them and add them to your folder. you may not have internet service when you need the info. These will help you if you have problems or need service. Lastly, always lock all the compartment and exterior doors while traveling so they don’t fly open. We have all seen them bouncing around going down the highway.

  2. Phil Hasty says:

    Get to know your equipment and systems.

    Electric system and batteries. What are the brand and model number of the converter. Which breakers/fuse feed what. Do you have multiple spares fuse for all sizes?

    Water, black and gray tank systems. I was surprised to find that my shower and bathroom sink went into the black tank! Now I don’t dump kitchen sink water into the toilet (unless needed). Where are water lines exposed to the weather, I have a faucet/spray in the black tank area, no insulation from the cold. My low point drains are not the lowest points, the black tank faucet/sprayer is.

    Propane system, I found that I had an automatic cutoff on the propane tank connected to the propane alarm.

    If a motorhome, use the VIN to look up your engine, transmission…
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    Store all the information in your notes. Take pics of your of everything and when your out and about and see something that might help out, you may need to use them as a reference.

    HTH Phil.

  3. Michael Schuetz says:

    Great article.
    I would recommend being FULLY aware of the size of your RV. Will it fit (as well as the roof AC Unit) under that low hanging limb you are approaching? We have noticed low bridge clearance in old historic villages. Will it scrape the ground going into or out of a driveway? Go slow.
    Be aware of the crown (high spot) in the road and realize that, at the curb and turning the corner, your taller RV will be leaning into trees, signs, walls and other objects on the right and or left side.
    The automatic step that moves out automatically when the door opens may ram into a curb.
    Use your side mirrors pulling up to and leaving the gas pumps to check clearance on the sides.
    These are some of the small things that can cause big repair bills.

    1. Team RV Lifestyle says:

      Thank you, Michael – All excellent tips! Team RV Lifestyle

  4. Bob Zambron says:

    We did several small close to home n driveway camps first. Practice backing off n parking lots.

    1. Team RV Lifestyle says:

      Good advice! thanks, Bob- Team RV Lifestyle